Are you two still seeing a C occasionally? If so, how is that going? Could it be that H has been going through depression and should take something to help him get through it? He seems to be very down on himself.
Quote: The most attractive options include running away and starting over somewhere else... sigh. Risky, but interesting. The least attractive options involve putting my head down and accepting that I am completely at the mercy of whatever comes my way. Still risky, but predictable.
I know that feeling and it's getting stronger every day as limbo continues. In my sitch, once the Church pronounces itself on the annulment, the limbo will be over and the options will be clear. To that end, all options are being considered and prepared so that I'll be ready for anything. Of course, any decisions will probably made at the last minute also.
