L's secretary responded to my concerns of use of "visitation" rather the "physical custody."

"I don't think the wording will make that much difference but I'll bring it to Mr Lawyer's attention."

I expected as much.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13