W and my mother saw each other today. I'm sure it was uncomfortable for them both. W texted me about it. W said mom was being super nice and kept telling W how pretty she was. W said it made her feel bad because she knew mom was trying to make things better or fix things. I told W thats just mom, she thinks everything can be fixed with a hug. W responded back that she (W) knew that but it made her feel bad because no one can fix it, only her (W). I told her not to worry one second about my mother, she's fine. W responded back that she doesn't worry about her she just hates making others sad. Went on to say, "except you (mtnman). Lol! Just kidding. I hate making you sad too!" I responded with our playful inside text emoticon for F U.
She responded with,"See y'all panicked for nothing. I left (part time) and everybody is fine! Y'all just didn't think you could survive without me and you have. Lol. I just say that to make myself feel better."
I thought that was a nice little moment of honesty, and good to hear.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later