I follow your thread with some strange fascination. You deserve a medal for putting up with your husband. Wow, healthy dose of MLC, or what?
MLC - what a ride - and not the same for all of us. Mine has disappeared and has not contacted me for over two weeks now. And yours (and MizJ's as well) will just not leave. I guess the grass is never really greener for any of us, is it? I always sort of assumed that if we had not been long distance for the last few years and that he had already moved home that our situation would have improved, but I can see from your situation that just might not be the case.
I think this sort of thing should be part of lessons in school.