"Mrbond, I realize it takes time. I am being patient."
That wasn't my point. It's not so much you being impatient. You are still trying to find the main reasons that she left you when there may not even be one. You're still looking at it too logically. I'm sure the financial issue may have played a part of it, but it wasn't the main reason.
"you know that Dr Harley lists 'financial needs' as an important emotional need for women?"
Yes, but it's not an "emotional" need. It's the need to feel secure in their environment. Finances is just a part of it.
"I swear on my little girls life that those,messages are word for word what she typed."
Don't ever say something like that again. Sounds creepy.
"Also, she has always felt like I dont listen to her and take her.opinions in business matters."
BINGO! This IS the reason why she left you. Not just because of business matters, but in all matters it seems. Look at how you are on here. People give you advice that you ask for, but you don't listen and don't seem to take some opinions kindly. And that made many people drop out of your situation. Can't you see that's why your W dropped out of your M?
"To me it is because she is smart, but has no business experience and so concepts like 'scarcity of resources' are foreign to her."
See? This is EXACTLY how you talk to people on the board. And what turned everyone off is that it makes it sound like you're superior than everyone else. Just because they aren't YOU doesn't mean that people don't "get it".
Re-read that part again. That is the reason why you turn your W and many people on here off.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.