It does thank you. One thing I am struggling with is that I know that my W will want our son to meet and spend time with the OM soon. I'm really not comfortable it as I know nothing about him and I also believe our son would be uncomfortable about it. Also not sure i will ever be happy with our son meeting the man that was "there" like a vulture at the end of our marriage. I mean this guy was with her 2 days after she left whilst I dealt with our sobbing son.

How on earth do I handle this when she asks?


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013