Waiting, this thread is about Mandy's sitch, she reads your thread so please focus on your sitch in your thread instead of hers and let her reply to you there.
And be very careful about seeking answers on what your H is thinking from others. Every sitch is unique and every WAS is unique. There are some common script moves, but no matter how many people you ask you will never, ever be able to rationally explain what any one WAS is thinking or doing. Often they don't even know themselves.
