I think you're right. The only thing I'd say about that is I feel that even if my W wanted to reconcile (no sign of it) I'm not sure she would have the courage to admit it.
And that is EXACTLY why I temp checked when I did. My W is TERRIBLE at communicating things, so I felt like I had to check just in case she was thinking of reconciling but didn't want to admit it. Wasn't the case though. And frankly I haven't heard of a single case where the LBS temp checked and got good news from the WAS.
