Thanks AS that makes sense - although, I do think I have let my W loose.
I never initiate contact - am friendly when we do speak - she also knows about my GAL. It's plain to see and I'm certain she feels "free" it just doesn't really seem to make too much difference - and I don't think it will whilst OM is in the picture, and according to her they are very much in love..
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013