I'm sure it's a MLC...

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I agree - actually one of the things I find most frustrating regarding my W - isn't that she's done this to our family (that obviously hurts) but it's her inability to see that the situation has had and is having repercussions on our Son.

He played up in school, tells his Mum to "f off" yet is very well behaved when with me. I told my W he needed counselling but she just couldn't see it. I was amazed.

I ended up booking him into counselling myself.

What also amazes me - is this stuff is so text book and so scripted how can they NOT see that they are having a MLC? The rest of the world can (with the exception of her parents and OM I presume) but not her.