Just out of interest (and I realise I'm nowhere near there yet) but at what point should you temperature check? Any at all? I'd imagine you just wait for the WAW to initiate R conversation. Correct?
All I can say is I've done it a few times in my sitch and the answer was never what I wanted to hear. At first it was "I don't know what I want" and "I'm still very confused." The last time I asked I finally got "I'm ready to move on" to which I asked if she meant D and she said yes. The DB'ing advice is to never temp check. But I think pretty much every LBS does it at some point, it's hard to resist. Do it if you must, but be ready to hear what you don't want to hear. If the WAS ever wants to reconcile they'll let the LBS know, there's really no good reason to temp check.
