What my DB coach said is that you need to be able to change and react to the circumstance and situation. It is normal to have some close time then coldness. What she was saying was to take this for the moment without reading into it too much and without taking it personally. It is important to adjust reactions to the mood and WAS reaction.
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.