Harder and harder

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Kenva- Thanks for checking in...all we can do is stay strong and plow forward until our W's shed their other friends - CHECK THIS OUT...

SHOCK OR DETACHMENT??????
On Friday I went to MC with W. Due to the fact that she has not given up her OM we are currently using the therapist to check in and get best practices on co-parenting D3 .I thought this would be best to continue to keep us going regularly (currently every 3 weeks) If we make a break through it will enable us to begin piecing quicker.

So, about halfway through the session MC asks her about the OM. My W responds "Which one". THE MC AND I BOTH ALMOST FELL OUT OF OUR SEATS!. She then proceeds to tell us that she hasnt ended it with the first and has not told either one about the other (Please note my preceding post that tells of her arguing the fact that I didnt want my D3 to shack up with one of them).

I stayed calm during the session. Even when W stated that she thought it would be a good idea if she got a apartment because she "has some issues she needs to work out". The MC replied , stonefaced, "I think that may be a good idea".

WHO IS THIS WOMAN???????????????????

I am now concerned for my W as a person. When she "wakes up" this will be FUGLY. I know that all I can do is continue to detach and GAL so that I remain stronger and healthy for my little girl. Even with all that has gone on she has been my best friend and partner for 18 years.

It REALLY helps me to envision an alien taking over her brain. As silly as it sounds it helps to explain all of these issues and revelations.

This weekend D3 and I had a BLAST! Friday night we went to the neighborhood bar were we split Nachos and wings and I drink Diet pepsi and lime and she drinks Milk (to those who might get alarmed she was tucked in bed - brushed and washed- before 8:30pm). On Sat we did yardwork- got it done and then went shopping together. On Sunday we went to breakfast with grandparents- W came home and I dissapeared