Can I ask, is confessing their love for the OM a common "symptom" of MLC.
It just strikes me as odd - surely nobody can get over a 10 year marriage and breaking up a family that easily?
Well my W said to me on BD day. I am not 'in love' with you anymore, I think I'm 'in love' with him. Amazing, not only had she been wondering how to tell me, with the 2 -3 minutes of finding out about OM, I went from having a wife, to then being told she was no longer in love with and wanting divorce, to telling me she was in love with another man. A man she claimed to have only met online!!! So yes very much fantasy.
Intact have a read through my posts. I think we are pretty much at the same stages with the same issues.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
