BD was the day after her 39th Birthday where she told me she "wondered what her life had come too" and what happened to our ambition etc.
She now exercises religiously - she was thin anyway but has lost so much weight.
A large amount of her money is now spent on clothes and designer shoes etc.
An affair who apparently is the love of her life.
I made her feel "trapped" and I apparently controlled her and stopped her having friends.
I'm posting here now in hope that people who have been through or experienced a MLC crisis can offer me some additional advice. I have read DR and all the threads on here. Have been working on myself too.
I never initiate contact but find my Wife runs very hot cold - 1 day she can ring and be chatty etc but then for the next week she can be as cold as ice.
Thank you for reading, I'd really appreciate any comments/advice etc.
Wow Intact. Is my W related to yours in some way. This is pretty much as I could have written everything. Unbelievable. I will continue to read the rest of your posts now!!!!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
