BRNR.. Hope things have been good with you? I am glad to hear you started to clean up some of his things. I actually have to do the same thing as well.. she left some of the weirdest things behind and took other things that she shouldn't have... so I know the feeling..
After reading your new thread this morning I have been feeling the exact same way. I am questioning everything and it's starting to scare me because I am letting go.... I want to let go but it's really freaking me out because I know I am at the point where I probably could if I wanted too.
Without reading these boards and doing the research that I have there is no way I could be as ready as I am now. But with knowing what I know now I am starting to realize it's the only way.... that there is no way of holding on... I could wait another 6 months or a year and I am not going to love her any less than I do right now.... no matter what happens. Like Portia had posted earlier... I don't want her back the way she is... she's not the woman I feel in love with.. actually not even close.. everyone changes a little as the getting older an experience life... but our spouses changes were more than just a little.
Thanks for starting this thread... it's exactly how I am feeling after this weekend.
Take care..;)
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
