See how far you've come in such a short time! It's a step and it proves you can be responsive instead of reactionary. You can continue to build on this by remembering your successes.
Keep going to meetings. You will find support in accepting that his decisions are his decisions, his problems are his problems.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss