Thank you again - all of that makes sense. I have thought to my several times that my W is behaving like a teenager.

Not sure if it makes it any easier that OM is just a f@ck buddy - ouch! But I very much appreciate the honesty.

I have realised when I've been GALing she sends the odd text that always seems like she's fishing to know where I am etc.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013