C, you said she went back to your apartment. I'm just trying to keep it real.
You can do whatever you want. I just think that if you wanted a relationship with your wife in the future, adding you being with someone at this point is not really going to help, ya know?
Take care.
I agree Urworthy. Although it was nice to have that attention for the moment it is not what I want long term. I really do want things to work out with W. I guess it is me just losing hope that she will change and want to work on herself and this marriage. I do realize it would complicate things much as her being with an OM does. That's why I am not going to pursue anything further at this moment.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
