How is "going back to your apartment" going to help you on your journey? There are lots of ways to get confidence back, is this really the best way to do it? Did it help YOU work through your stuff?
Do you consider yourself still M'd?
What do your vows mean to you right now?
How do 2 wrongs make a right?
I just want you to think through this stuff. If you are really UNSURE if you want your W back then this is not going to help. You need to figure it out one way or the other. Seems to me like a lot of excuses for a one night stand.
I've read so many of the old sitches where people have went this route and guess what, it burned almost each and every one of them and caused more hurt.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
