Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to assist her in clearing the fog. This is something that she will have to do during her crisis. You didn't break her, therefore you can't fix her. The best thing you can do is leave her alone, allow her to come to you and listen/validate her.
Leave the door ajar and go on w/your life as if she's not going to return. Your journey has begun as well and it is a time to do the things that you've put on the back burner or new hobbies/projects that you need to get started. Dig deeper for patience and know that if you sit quietly, the answers will come.
She is now on a separate time clock, which is very slow. You can't rush her crisis. The more you push her for answers the harder she will pull away. That's why it is best to leave her alone with lots of time and space.
It's time to turn the focus back on to you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
