BD was the day after her 39th Birthday where she told me she "wondered what her life had come too" and what happened to our ambition etc.
She now exercises religiously - she was thin anyway but has lost so much weight.
A large amount of her money is now spent on clothes and designer shoes etc.
An affair who apparently is the love of her life.
I made her feel "trapped" and I apparently controlled her and stopped her having friends.
I'm posting here now in hope that people who have been through or experienced a MLC crisis can offer me some additional advice. I have read DR and all the threads on here. Have been working on myself too.
I never initiate contact but find my Wife runs very hot cold - 1 day she can ring and be chatty etc but then for the next week she can be as cold as ice.
Thank you for reading, I'd really appreciate any comments/advice etc.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
