I can see how depression is at the core of this. That's helped me tremendously. Somewhere I also mentioned how I went through the same at the beginning of our marriage. For years I questioned why God allowed that to happen to me. Now I know at least one reason. I understand where W is, and why. I know how scared she is. I know how she's searching for answers, and wishing she could run away. I also know why I love her as much as I do. She stood by me like a rock when I had my issues, and I'm forever grateful.
^^^This is great!
I too like to think of all the years W stood by me. I figure the least I can do is stand by her during this difficult time in her life. That's what spouses who truly love their partners do, right?
Continue to be her rock Mtn. I think there's a good chance she may just find herself forever grateful one day.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl