Currently, your h hates everyone and everything. He's miserable and very unhappy w/his life. There is nothing you can do but give him plenty of space and time to work things out for himself. You didn't break him, therefore, you can't fix him.

While he's stewing in his unhappiness pot, you are to keep the focus on you as much as possible. Do things for yourself, finish up hobbies and projects that you've started and haven't completed, etc. Be sure to read all of the threads that Cadet has posted to help you along.

Also, please watch your finances and assets. Your h may very well begin spending money like it's water and leave you holding the bag on bills.

Any changes that you make for yourself, should be for yourself and not your husband. It's not your job to pretzel into someone that he thinks you should be. Also, any changes you make, must become permanent and not to be used only to get his attention and get him back. You have to be happy w/your own changes...okay?

Why not set up some goals for the next couple of weeks and work on them. That should keep your focused on something other than your husband.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.