I'm glad to hear so much compassion for your W and no anger in this post. It's not like there won't be some angry and frustrated feelings that may pop up in the future, but I hear so much love and understanding from you. I'm sure W feels it too.
She seems to be in the same place. She wants connection, advice, and sharing with you, but she still has issues to work through and it may be a while.
You have a strong and involved past history and a present reality with your two boys. Keep up the good work! rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway