I wonder if there is any hope at all for my marriage. Apparently my Wife told our Son over the weekend that we would be getting divorced soon.

I know people on here say as long as I have hope there is hope - but I'm just not sure it works like that.

At the moment my Wife seems to run hot and cold (not that I see her much) - one day she's nice and chatty the next day as cold as ice.

She seems completely infatuated with OM so there's really nothing I can do about that.

I have changed for the better - I'm a better person now - and many of my faults have been addressed whilst I'm still working on others...

I don't know... feel very helpless at the moment. If anyone has any comments and/or advice I'd really appreciate the.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013