I wanted my W to work on things in September when we starting getting back together but she do very much.
Other than dropping OM I think it's unrealistic to expect her to change anything else until she see's there is a need or wants to.

What is her motivation to change?

M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!