Hi Shiss,

I suggest you go back and read Breakdown's advice on separating the legal and emotional parts of your R. If he wants to end the legal connection, you can grant him that, without needing to tell yourself it is over.

I suppose depending on your interactions with him, you could ask him whether he would reconsider conciliation, and let him know you are interested in it. Maybe research it ahead of time, so you could explain what would happen, in case he is suspicious of it. But insisting on it will, as others point out, likely be sending the wrong message. You want to find a way to connect with him, not further the argument.


H: 38 xW: 38
M: 16 T: 18
S: 9
BD: 2/2012
W moved out 4/2012
D: 11/2012