In regards to Family Day, change that too if it's obviously not working. I wouldn't cancel it just bend it slightly. Change the dynamic wether it's where it happens or what activities your doing. Maybe say your planning on doing (insert activity) on that day and if she wants she can come.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14