Time, Space and Proof

[T1000]

I find my W hot and cold too.

I wouldn't say anything about the hug. You need actions not words.
If you say something it is more likely to be a negative.

Maybe try putting less into it, do a really quick hug and back off before she does. Or maybe position yourself so it doesn't happen. She either won't care and it doesn't matter or she will and it does matter.

If she wanted a good hug that is what she would do but she obviously doesn't for whatever reason.

It's easy for me to tell you this but tbh I would worry of the implications if you said this to me.