Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

she just sent a text saying that she will be staying at her friends house again tonight. It's weird sometimes when she does things that would normally hurt me it I don't get hurt but other times I do. I was doing some computer maintenance today and cleaning up/organizing the files. I came across a handful of documents I didn't recognize. W likes to write stories and I though they might be some of those, I opened them to see what they were. They were some stories that W had written, but some of them were sex stories about her and other people ranging from the same OM to her english prof to celebrities (there were none about me). I didn't know what to do so I just closed them, started doing something else and tried not to think about them. But they keep coming back into my head and it hurts a lot. Maybe it's for the best that she will not be here tonight again, even though she is probably with OM.