WAW...finally asked her to leave

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Pumpkinhead thank you for the encouragement. I wish you well too. I'm currently still fighting for my marriage and do not plan to do otherwise. I have not heard from my wife in six days now. however I went back and read the last resort technique to get a refreshed perspective especially since we've been separated since December 14th. although some here on the board were trying to help me it just took awhile for me to realize that what i was doing just wasnt working but i couldnt stop trying to fix things myself. I have since realized they were probably right but I just couldnt see that. Hindsight is always 20/20. so I saw her with other man me back from work at lunch right after Thanksgiving last year that was it for me. I asked her to either work on the marriage or we needed to separate. she of course chose to move out. so I have not when calling her I'll send you to call her back but she left a message for me Andy's past six days I have not tried to contact her. I am going to continue to follow the last resort technique and continue to pray to the Lord to guide us and our marriage.