WAS thinks I am angry and am projecting negative emotions onto her. She also does not realise how much I do with children. TBH I think whatever I had done last week, if I had asked her about lease it would not of changed her actions and I still would have done something wrong.
She does not believe her feelings towards me can change. So LRT needs to be a tactical step back emotionally, not cold just withdraw emotional support, I find this difficult without seeming to be playing games. She says that not communicating is part of the problem between us, at present this just gets twisted and interpreted as pressure and examining the relationship, going over old ground.
LRT needs to be showing her I am not angry or arrogant. I need to let her bringing up any issues like the car go. I need to journal what works, at the moment she only opens up emotionally when she is upset and I can see she is very angry because she thinks I control the situation. She is right but misunderstands why I have. WAS dislikes weakness and I took control because I knew otherwise she would walkover me, she has admitted this.
I need to focus on my positive affirmations, work and exercise.
GAL I am doing a cycle challenge for charity, 30 rides in 30 days so focus on my training, give up drinking and concentrate on Paleo diet too lose xtra pounds.
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.
