GALbaby I will reply as per your request, but take it as just my view rather than the be all. Sadly to say H sounds exactly like the old me. Always money for me to do things, no one else could as money was short. It was me being selfish, as long as I bought things/did things for me, nothing else really mattered. Sounds like always time to do my things and the W needs to do her things at the same time otherwise I will get annoyed. I feel he wants you to go into business as a silent partner, to keep you supposedly happy about being this partner, but the reality is he won't discuss things with you, will do things without your knowledge and will have more time to himself to do the things he wants to do. Again this is just my opinion based on the old me and what I would have thought if I was in that type of position. It could also simply be, as you said, that he is just an emotional cripple , and simply just doesn't get you have feelings and wants. I wish and hope for the best outcome for you GALbaby.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
