Help! I'm afraid to mess this up!

[ezekiel37]

So, we went away with my sons basketball team this weekend. It was a group thing...went fine....not a lot of opportunity for one on one time, which was good. Took the opportunity to hang out with " the moms" from the team, and have fun! On the drive home as the boys slept, we talked a little more about "the plan" (for divorce that he says we are going to do together).... I said nothing, and asked what his plan is....I'm really starting to believe that he doesn't really have one, and the reason he wants me to do it with him, is to do it for him. Honestly, he doesn't seem to have anything figured out, except that he doesn't want to answer to anyone for any reason. Total rebellion. It's hard for me, because I AM the planner,the researcher, the problem solver, But I don't want any of this....I will be darned if he is wanting me to help him do this to me!! It's twisted!!