I want to work on things with my wife. I am unsure if I want her back at this point.

I did go out with a woman on Friday night with a group of people. It was nice to have the attention. But it is something at this moment I will not pursue.
This is something I wouldn't have thought of a month ago, so I guess my knowledge of OM changed my feelings.
My W is not and has not been the person I married for the last year.
She has shown no motivation to want to work on herself.
If she does not work on herself then I won't want to be with her.
I have been working on me for 4 or 5 months and I like what I'm seeing except when it comes to my wife.

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it