Thanks cbt and uR. She does control my moods. I realize that this is what detaching is all about. I need to get better. I can be myself when I am not around her, why not be myself regardless of where W is or what W is doing. Thanks again.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.