Lol Grizz. It would come back to you. Just be you!

Yeah are sitches are a little different.
My W actually filed for D on 12/12/12.
We have been separated since 1/11/13
He has been seeing OM since end of January.
At some point a couple of weeks ago when I found this out for sure it did become easier to be around women.

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it