Sweetie, I want to see you taking the focus off of your wife. That's the key to all this.

This is tough stuff. Really tough. It aint for the faint of heart.

It's hard enough without you putting a timeframe on it.

The way to do this is to make a choice. Make a choice to be the best you, you can be. Regardless of what your wife does or says.

Get out of your head, G.

Figure out who you want to be for you. And each day, be that person. Some days you'll make it, some you wont, but that should always be the goal.

It is really important to understand that this is a journey she is meant to go on. Your job is to get out of the way and start yours.

No one knows what the future holds. But you have been given a wonderful opportunity to become the man you were meant to be.

Be that man.