I would love to have that touch but, and this may sound stupid, I would feel soooo guilty if I did that. Maybe I would feel different if W was pursuing OM. I don't know. Maybe I will feel different when/if W moves out. She said if she moves out then she is filing for D. I guess we'll see soon enough. You never know what you will do until you are put in a situation.
I hope you guys make it to the MC date. Good luck.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.