Taking a step back-a fresh start

[cbtdad]

Sort of I guess. I played in a golf tournament last weekend. I met this girl Saturday after the tournament. She contacted me Thursday and asked if is like to go out for dinner and drinks with some of we friends.
It was one of her friends 35th birthday Friday. So it was a group thing.
I must admit I was nice to have a night out where I hardly thought about W and sitch. It was nice to have someone laugh at my jokes and not feel like I had to watch every word. We did end up going back to my apartment.
Grizz, I'm not going to lie. It was very nice to have the touch and attention.
When you feel so rejected for so long it definitely went a long way to boost my confidence.
Having said that, I do not plan on pursuing at this time.
I do want to work on my marriage.
You've seen where I have said if we dot make it to MC on 5/7 that I will move on.
Well then at that point I would probably pursue.
I won't give up on my M, but I will not just sit and do nothing while she is out pursuing OM.
When she tells me "I want to work on our marriage" or something to that effect I will put everything into that