Recently Separated and Need Help

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Self worth? Insecurity?

So what are you doing to change this? HOW are you doing things differently?

I'm not sure if it's the right way to handle it, but I'm working on doing things on my own. Realizing that I don't need anyone to help me. That I can be independent. I've lost weight. I've started buying new clothes that show off my weight loss. I've started taking better care of myself. I was always felt like if I didn't keep my H on a short leash, that someone more attractive would catch his eye and take him away from me. All I was doing was pushing him away. If I could have only seen that what I was doing was hurting my M!

I'm trying very hard to make me a better person. For me, for my kids. If anyone has any suggestions on something I can do differently, I'm open. Changing bad habits isn't easy, but in this case, it's so necessary.