I couldn't agree more and I'm smiling at my foolishness I'm so glad that I posted something and somebody responded because it's just so helpful to gain some insight before we act on anything that we are thinking
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12