Thanks Urworthy! Yeah I told her that a couple weeks ago and I've said it a few times since. Today was the first time I've talked to her since Friday. Weird day for sure, she wouldn't leave my sight it seems like. I personally think for 2 reasons. 1. I had a great weekend doing my own thing and I really felt for the first time that I will be good either way and she needs to do her own thing and so do I. 2. I was out with a girl I met last weekend on Friday night. Ran into some of wifes friends and I'm sure this got back to her.
I felt today that we are going to be ok either way. If we do divorce I think out relationship will be fine, which is great for our son. If we do go to counseling or something else I still think there is a chance we can reconcile. I'm not pushing for this now though. I'm going to worry about me and continue to become the best man I can be
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it