H just revealed that I am not showing detachment from him by telling him to move out. He said it makes him feel like I need to let him go, it makes him feel tethered to me, and I should let him go! HUH????
He said even if I was to win the lottery and be independent he would still come home to his family! I didn't say, BS you SOB!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
