Lets say that she is in the middle of her MLC, being that you are divorced right now, could I ask why you would want to try to reconnect with her while she is in crisis.
I mean it is like putting a cake in the oven and wanting to eat it 15 mins later.
She and the cake are not yet baked.
You want her back when she is fully baked not before.
The OM is doing you are favor right now, he is taking care of someone in crisis. So what does that say about him?
