Main thing CB is that all through phase 2 of my W's mlc, though I knew about the online chat and webcamming, after initial discovery and confrontation before BD, I have said VERY little about it, done a lot of acting "as if" nothing was going on, etc. Even my suspicions about the PA, thankfully, somehow i kept my mouth shut and did not DO anything like shove the evidence panties and camisole in her face...I would not be looking at a growing re-connection and beginning reconcile process now if I did.
I am glad i read this. I have just posted on my thread about how I have got myself all wound up about W buying nice things, and looking great. But its not for me anymore. I had to bite my tongue. I'm glad I did. There is a lot of tongue biting going on where OM is involved!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
