Jay, we will be much better men, yes. I think most of us on this board have had an awakening. We're learning things about relationships (and ourselves) that we never even thought about before. In this way our sitches can be thought of as good things.

To hope!

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...