First Post--2d troubled marriage

[2X Divorcee?]

Ok, understand...and I've basically decided to us the DB coach and not the IC any more.

the thought of an unresolved MLC before we met has crossed my mind. Certainly a concern. My way ahead is no different. Detach, GAL, lower expectations but keep the roads back open. If/when we do talk, validate, don't judge, keep it matter of fact, no emotions and no convincing arguments....nobody should be trying to "win" any points here.

I'm in the AF...so is W.