Thanks for the reply Accuray. I'm glad to hear you think I handled it OK.

Not sure how it works where I live. I couldn't have them during the week due to distance.


Didn't hear anything from her until nearly 24 hours later.

Txt message:
12:37 Wife: What time were you thinking of bringing S3 and S1 back?
12:48 Wife: Hello?
12:48 Wife: Anybody there?

12:54 T1000: Be at yours for 4.00

12:52 Wife: Ok

End of message

Later on

Txt message:
15:44 T1000: Hit a traffic jam, gonna be at least another 40 mins

15:51 Wife: Oh your joking

15:54 T1000: I wish

15:55 Wife: Gutted. Been sat by the window waiting for you all.

16:00 T1000: What's the saying. Humans make plans while God rolls around laughing his ass off.

16:00 Wife: How very philosophical of you!

16:02 T1000: You been eating a dictionary?

16:03 Wife: Yes....two last night and one this morning
16:16 Wife: (Sent me funny pic)
16:25 Wife: Eta

16:27 T1000: 5
16:27 T1000: Mins

16:26 Wife: Ok

End of message

I honestly didn't know how she was going to be when I dropped the kids off.
The text today she seems a little bit more chatty. She kept S1 up a bit later than normal (I tend to leave when the kids are in bed). Offered me some food (I declined) and later made me a cup of tea.
It feels like she is maybe wanting me to spend more time with me.
It felt when I left like I could have stayed there for as long as I wanted.

Maybe I'm mind reading or trying to see what I want to see.

My dim contact has obviously been noticed. It's tempting to change this but I can't really say why I should.
I do think I should show more interest when she contacts me. For the last 3-4 days I have been short. I think this has pushed her buttons.

How do I know when I should push for something else?


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!