Thanks for the reply Accuray. I'm glad to hear you think I handled it OK.
Not sure how it works where I live. I couldn't have them during the week due to distance.
Didn't hear anything from her until nearly 24 hours later.
Txt message: 12:37 Wife: What time were you thinking of bringing S3 and S1 back? 12:48 Wife: Hello? 12:48 Wife: Anybody there?
12:54 T1000: Be at yours for 4.00
12:52 Wife: Ok End of message
Later on
Txt message: 15:44 T1000: Hit a traffic jam, gonna be at least another 40 mins
15:51 Wife: Oh your joking
15:54 T1000: I wish
15:55 Wife: Gutted. Been sat by the window waiting for you all.
16:00 T1000: What's the saying. Humans make plans while God rolls around laughing his ass off.
16:00 Wife: How very philosophical of you!
16:02 T1000: You been eating a dictionary?
16:03 Wife: Yes....two last night and one this morning 16:16 Wife: (Sent me funny pic) 16:25 Wife: Eta
16:27 T1000: 5 16:27 T1000: Mins
16:26 Wife: Ok End of message
I honestly didn't know how she was going to be when I dropped the kids off. The text today she seems a little bit more chatty. She kept S1 up a bit later than normal (I tend to leave when the kids are in bed). Offered me some food (I declined) and later made me a cup of tea. It feels like she is maybe wanting me to spend more time with me. It felt when I left like I could have stayed there for as long as I wanted.
Maybe I'm mind reading or trying to see what I want to see.
My dim contact has obviously been noticed. It's tempting to change this but I can't really say why I should. I do think I should show more interest when she contacts me. For the last 3-4 days I have been short. I think this has pushed her buttons.
How do I know when I should push for something else?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14